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Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Everything's coming together

I've been flying for a month now and things are finally becoming easier and more routine. I'm actually surprised at how much time I have off to go out and be with friends. Today I officially accepted my offer to do my Master of Education in September. Good thing is that courses are delivered online, so I can continue to fly because I LOVE MY JOB!!! Updates on dating? Well, two girls have come and gone, simply lost interest. However, two more girls have come and are here to stay a while =) Plus I've kinda decided to throw a boy back into the mix, it's definitely been a while and it's DEFINITELY DIFFERENT lol. Besides, sexuality is fluid, right? I'm finally at a point where I'm in charge of my sexuality and completely open to experiment with different things. It took a long time to get here, but I've never felt so empowered. Advice? Surround yourself with liberal-minded people who share your views of the world. You'll soon see that people who simply pass judgments on your decisions in life will never experience LIVING.

so sad...?

My girlfriend and I broke up last week right before Valentine's Day... well, SHE broke up with ME. I understand... we're young, she needs to establish her career (we both do I guess), we need to focus on ourselves, there's much more growing to do... But simply knowing all the reasons in the world doesn't make a it hurt any less. Maybe what they say is true, that if you love someone let them go, and if it was meant to be it eventually will be. Problem is that we've lived together for almost a year now, and moving back home isn't exactly what I had planned for myself. Break-ups have definitely gotten more complicated these days, especially in our case where our living situation, relationship with family, the dog, our friends, are all involved. Just when I was starting to feel comfortable in my surroundings and the people I have now come to known, everything is slipping away from me. A couple of friends were nice enough to take me out this weekend, and let me tell you that being SINGLE in the lesbian scene for the first time of my life sure feels different. Maybe this is a blessing in disguise, and I could sure use the chance to discover myself. Good news is that I am now working as a flight attendant, and as soon as training is over I will finally get to travel around the world like I always wanted. I love my job and I haven't been able to say that in a LONG time.

Monday, January 30, 2012

Do women all hide?

I have looked everywhere and dont know where the woman of my dreams is. Im listed on several sites, I cant find her. If she is on the paid sites, that will be impossible.
That song from the Moody Blues comes through sometimes. “The secret of your beauty, and the mystery of your soul, Ive been looking for in everyone I meet”. I know this woman inside, and have been dreaming about her for years. I have never had the right woman come forward. Its usually women who want kids, or are listed as religious, or something I am not. Being an individualist is a lonely road. I have always been or thought differently on certain things, and it seems to alienate me from some. I cant find people in my own community. They all hide.
I am listed as open to relocate because I want this woman so badly I have to be open to other areas than here.
So listen. I have boundaries, I cant help it. I just just accept any woman that pops up and wants me when they dont pay attention to the detail that is important to me in my profile.
I love brunettes and wonder if I can find one that is thin, fit, likes me for who I am, balanced, adrogynous, but all woman. accepting is important right now. my life is not perfect. I have a lot to offer as far as love goes, and all the great components that make a relationship work, but I do not have any money. Live with my parents. I have ambitions but I need support and help. For some reason that tends to scare people off. Im not trying to be a burden to anyone. I see a very successful future if I can just find her.

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

3 years ago – when we met

Max and I celebrated our 3 year anniversary yesterday, so I thought it was timely to blog about how we met. Three and a bit years ago I found myself single and just wanting a bit of fun as I had left a tumultuous 6 month relationship, which had followed a serious 2 year relationship. So fun was my priority. I went on to a lesbian dating/community website, I had been on this website off and on for a few years. I never really liked the website as I found it very vanilla with a pinch on 80-90s radical feminism. I should confess that I am not in line with radical feminism, the ones that wear jean overalls and hate men. I find that these feminists only like women to behave a certain way, and being Femme was not to their liking. Don’t get me wrong, feminism has been a wonderful thing for women and society in general. I just don’t understand how some can fight for women’s rights and then say the only way to be a woman is their way. Feminism should mean that a woman has the chance to be a woman any way she chooses. Anyway I digress, I went on the lesbian website (as it really is the only one that has a big enough potential dating pool) and did a search for Butch. Only eight came up, this lesbian website does not encourage Butches, Femmes, Trans and generally queer people. Well Max was on top of the list and he has his photo up (cute, I thought), so I gave him a ‘hello’. He said hello back, so I messaged that I am not into internet chatting so let’s meet up for coffee. He agreed, so we meet up for coffee then had dinner. We got along very well, and we were both looking for only “casual encounters”. Max was a year out of a 10 year relationship. The dinner went well and I ended up at his place. I decided not to spend the night, as I was keen not to send any messages of wanting a relationship (as I really was not looking for one). Anyway, we agreed that we were happy to have a casual relationship and not see each other anymore than once per fortnight.

Well that didn’t last long. We started seeing each once per week the next week! It is hard to say no to great sex. Within about 4 weeks I started to crush hard, I was really falling for him. I realise when we were hanging out I was becoming nervous around him because I liked him so much, he picked this up and teased me about it. Later he admits he did this so he looked all cool and casual, even though he didn’t feel cool and casual. I think about six weeks in, I confessed to him that I really liked him, he still played it cool. So we continued on seeing each other once to twice a week for few weeks, and finally we spoke really openly about our feelings for each other and not wanting it to end and become official. We acknowledge what we were practically in was a relationship so let’s keep going. Our relationship was just so much fun. We get along on many levels and have very similar views on relationships and life in general. Out of all of my relationships, this relationship has been so easy. Fun, easy, wonderful, safe, exciting, comfortable, what more could I want!

For most of my lesbian relationships I have run them very slow, for example not moving in for at least a year of going out, keeping things separate for as long as possible I guess. However with Max I was practically moved in within four or five months of first meeting. Such a ‘lesbian’ thing and we joked about that, because we knew we were not mainstream lesbians. I should highlight the ‘practically moved in’ means that I still continued to pay rent elsewhere, but slowly moved all my clothes over and didn’t spend a night were I rented. I was in my final year of my doctorate, and didn’t want to move in with someone and possible break up with them and move out in the last year of my dissertation. So I did not move in with Max until January 2010. We bought a house together in October 2010. We registered our relationship on the state register at around the same time. This is the most committed relationship I have ever been in, and it is funny to think that it was never supposed to be that way. I love our relationship. Max may have physically changed in many ways, however the foundations that we built together has never changed, and I don’t think they will anytime soon.

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Lesbian Sex Toys

Whether you are new or experienced in the use of lesbian sex toys you may be surprised by the amount of choice that is now available on the current market. No longer are lesbian sex toys merely associated with strap ons and doubled ended dildos, although these types of products are still a popular choice amongst the lesbian community.


Strap ons in their traditional guise consist of a dildo that is attached to a harness that is worn around the waist and thighs similar to a pair of briefs. The harness is sometimes supplied with a number of O ring attachments so that if the dildo is detachable, it can easily be replaced with another one that has a different girth measurement. Although these strap ons are still a fashionable choice, there are now a number of different alternatives available. Strap ons now come with wireless and wired multispeed vibrators available as an alternative to dildos. A more recent development is the strapless strap on, either with or without vibration, which as the name suggests, does not include any harness or strapping, but instead comes with a bulbous shaped protrusion which can be inserted into either the anus or the vagina and allows for simultaneous pleasure to both partners.



Double ended dildos or double enders, come in the form of the conventional dildo but are considerably longer which allows for double penetration. Usually in the form of jelly dildos to ensure more easy insertion and better flexibility, double enders are also available with variable speed vibrating action and come in a selection of different lengths and girths depending on personal preference.



Love eggs and pleasure balls can be used in either the vagina or the anus. Either elliptical or circular in shape, these adult toys usually have a soft outer coating, sometimes with a nodular surface, and contain internal steel balls. Once inserted, the constant rolling motion can cause extensive pleasure to the user. Often coming as two balls or eggs connected by a sturdy Nylon cord, these sex toys can be used for sole pleasure or by both partners synchronously. Love eggs and pleasure balls also act an effective pelvic floor toner and exerciser, particularly post childbirth or menopause.



Butterfly sex toys or butterfly stimulators are worn as you would do a pair of briefs but there is one significant difference: they have built a built in vibrating action that stimulates the clitoris. This form of clit stimulator sometimes comes with a small penis plug that is inserted into the vagina for simultaneous vaginal and clitoral stimulation. Clitoral massagers or pumps provide multispeed vibrations to the erogenous zone by causing an increased blood flow to the labia and vaginal area.



Adult toys for lesbians do not just come if the form of products that aim to exhilarate the clitoris, labia, vagina or anus. Female sex pumps can, in most cases, be used on the clitoris and the breasts. By using a hand pump and placing the suction cup over the breasts and nipples a tight vacuum is created thereby generating intense sensations. Some pumps also come with multispeed vibrating action built in to provide additional stimulation.



There are also a considerable number of female sex enhancement products available which intensify female intimate responses whether it is for the nipples, female g-spot or clitoris. With all this in mind, there are a significantly higher number of options available for lesbians today than in previous decades that cater for all budgets and come in a range of different styles, sizes and colours.

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What Is A Good Lesbian Dating Website

A good lesbian dating website will come with a diversity of features. You should meet the girl of your dreams, flirt on female chat rooms, browse through the hundreds of member profiles, read many testimonials and more. Girl to girl is a lesbian dating website that promises exactly this. This is a service that has been established by women for women. This is the place to explore your sexuality as you meet incredible girls, for relationships. Before you join any lesbian dating website, know exactly what to expect. Terms and conditions are often ignored but, they are paramount to ensure that you are satisfied with the service.
The following are terms and condition for girl to girl dating website for lesbians. First, the service reserves that right to bar access to anyone for any reason. This is often done by online services to maintain security and to uphold the rule therein set by the service. The services will be for people who are above the age of 21. When you agree to the terms, there will be a provision that confirms your agreement. You are bound to them and can suffer the consequences if you do not adhere to the terms. The other condition you will find on girl to girl is the fact that you are aware of the adult material that could be explicit. To sign up, you must be prepared for it. The site or the service has the right to screen any material they deem wanting. You will also get to assume the responsibility of all material you upload.
There are many other lesbian dating websites. Therefore, let the ultimate decision be yours. Gay girls, is a site that you will not regret joining. It does not matter what you are looking for in a partner; you will find it. From short term relationships to casual flings, this is your one stop shop. If you are looking for a soul mate, the girls of your dreams are a tiny step away. It is pretty easy to register. Most lesbian sites will provide registration for free. Take advantage of this and see what you are missing.
The lesbian lifestyle has become very popular in the recent past. More and more singles are coming out of the closet to declare their sexuality. Such sites empower lesbians to go ahead and find suitable mates. Their lives will be more fulfilled with partners to share with. If you are a lonely lesbian, there is a community of people like you just waiting to hear from you. You might wish to meet gay girls from your area or even internationally. Look for the right site that will connect you in the best way. Find a lesbian site that is affordable. Today, you will find flexibility pay plans that will not leave you pocket empty. Gay girls, has a thousand of members. When you join such a service. you have more chances of being joined to an ideal partner. After all variety is the spice of life. There is no doubt that you will spice up your life in more than one way.

What to do in Lesbian Dating

The onset of online dating has opened a new world for everyone in the world to fall in love and find that like minded character who wield the same kind of qualities they have and are looking for. Lesbian dating has not been left behind, and for any lesbian out there who is looking for the right person to engage into intimacy and romance with, they should make good use of online dating. They will never be disappointed at any one time.
The first query with any lesbian is which is the ideal and best place where they can easily meet other women online. Visit a dating site and you will not be hurt. In many of these sites offering dating services for lesbian women, you can easily tell those suitors out there how ready and 'out' you really are, drinking behavior, if you smoke, political orientation with many having lots of space for narration. In addition, lesbian dating in these sites enables you to identify yourself as a Bi, lesbian,Trans, femme or butch, as well as anymore that you can amass.
When you are placing your ad in these sites, first check your grammar and spelling. There is nothing that really turns off more than an ad that is poorly written. Be positive. Take care you do not write so much about those things you detest. Keep it simple. Avoid the usage of cliche and bear in mind that each and everyone of us is after that person who is honest and comes with a dose of good humor. In lesbian dating, the title is overtly importantly and make sure yours is eye-catching. Do not forget a picture. Those sites which have photographs are the ones which will mount more hits.
There are some things you have to pay attention to when in response of an ad. Look at the geographical location, for instance, a person who is within ten or so miles, person within your age limit, same political views and not necessarily affiliations but ideology plus those other things which will surely catch your eye, such as the same interest in movies and books.Make sure you do not forget to check out the photographs.
When it comes to giving out the phone number in your lesbian dating spree, make sure have been in correspondence via instant messenger or e-mail before making that decision to speak via the phone. You will be able to easily make a judgement if you would like to continue with the correspondence after a couple of e-mails. You must remember not to offer your phone number till you are have reached that stage where it is prudent to meet. This will make you know if they have changed their mind or they might be late.
Lesbian dating calls for flexibility and you might find yourself meeting without a prior phone call. This is mostly after hearing their voice and speech, although the capacity of comfort while chatting through the phone might tell you if at all there will be anything in particular to speak about during your meeting.
Once you have met, you can have dating as your topic as you find out your date's experiences in this topic. The other topics are those things that usual in any type of dating, from what one does in life to where one was born and grew up in. You can also take this initiate about knowing if there are people you know in common as well as if they have ever been in lesbian dating before.

First-Time Lesbian Sex at Midlife

Most girls who work out they're lesbos later in life have some jitters when they're facing their first sexual experience. As a coach, I regularly hear questions like, "What do I do?" and "How do I do it?" I also regularly hear comments like, "What if i am unable to please her?" and "What if I don't like it?" Please, relax! Remember, lesbian sex is, above all, FUN. There are some real positives about lesbian sex that actually can reduce strain, compared to hetero sex. * There are no Problems about getting pregnant. This is gigantic.
No contraception, no "slipping up" and then having to attend on the fringe of your seat three weeks to work out if you have missed. Absolutely freeing. * Then there's the issue of orgasms.
Men have "one and done," so fundamentally in hetero sex when he's's satisfied, the experience is over. Not so with lesbian sex. With multiple orgasm capacity it lasts while we need it to.
* Lesbian sex isn't vanilla. Simply by reason of the indisputable fact that it IS lesbian sex! It's imperative not to fall into a rut, though. Keep it fresh. * Communication is less complicated, since you talk the same language. Males and females have different communication styles and this will finish up in misunderstandings when it comes to sex. * Then naturally, the best advantage is that you are having sex with a woman, which naturally is what you have been wanting! Now, let's say you have been going out with a girl a number of times and you believe you are getting close. If the woman is also just coming out ( this frequently happens to mid-lifers ) there's infrequently less stress surrounding the loss of your lesbian virginity. You can learn together. While there are "how to" books available on the topic, you most likely will just finish up doing what comes natural. I do endorse the books as a cool way to open communication about the topic and maybe expand your idea of what makes up sex and your exploration of each other. When the experience does occur, you will probably find it a completely natural and great experience.
Then again some girls do describe their first time as weird. This is completely OK. You've been used to having hetero sex and this is something new. If the weird feeling continues, or you are feeling very uncomfortable or do not like lesbian sex, maybe you must rethink your alignment. If you're stepping out with a girl which has experience, you can feel under more stress. So, why not let her take the lead? Again, relax. Do what comes natural. There are no wrong and right strategies to have sex. Hear your better half, not only what she's's asserting, but her soon...breathing, complains, sighs. It is feasible to hurt her, but again, watch your better half's expressions, listen rigorously and take your cues from that. Keep communicating, before, during and after sex. Sex is always a learning experience when you're with a new partner. So, basically each time with someone new will be a first time. Each of you has different things that turn you on and you need to learn that about one another.
While you'll have read books or heard others' experiences and you suspect you know what lesbian sex is, the actuality is that there's a great deal of adaptation in sexual styles and desires among girls. Some ladies may need oral sex, others may think it's a turn-off, some ladies may like penetration, others do not some women may love their nipples touched and for others it may do nothing, or be unpleasant. Even if your better half is experienced, it's still her first time with YOU, too.
Ensure she knows that you are a lesbian virgin. That'll be something she's's thinking about...making sure it's great for you the initial time. So, the field will not be as uneven as you might imagine. When having lesbian sex for the initial time, remember, there isn't any right and wrong, just what you both like to do. There are few rules, just be natural and keep communicating - stay mindful of how she feels and tell her how you are feeling and what you like, too. Keep these things in mind and I'm sure of one thing - your very first time will definitely not be your last!

Monday, January 9, 2012

Girl On Girl: Why Lesbians Are Coming Out Of The Closet!

Lesbian love is nothing new; Sappho was an Ancient Greek poetess who was born on the island of Lesbos. Many of her love poems were addressed to other women and the female narrators in many of her works speak of infatuations and love for various women. The word "lesbian" derives from the island on which she lived and her name is the origin of the word "sapphic". However, until recently, the idea of one woman loving another, let alone sleeping with another female has been perceived as something either very unusual and rare, or just downright strange. Over the last few years, there's been a gradual sea-change in regard to the general perception of what being 'lesbian' really means. The traditional image of the cropped haired, rather aggressive looking, butch dyke might still apply to some gay women, but now we're coming out of the closet in our millions and the world can see that actually, in most cases, we look just like the girl next door.
This mass 'coming out' is partly due to the proliferation of lesbian-centric resources on the internet; type in the word 'lesbian' into any of the search engines and you'll see a plethora of heavily populated chat rooms, directories, forums and dating sites which are the exclusive territory of sapphic women. It is this availability of male-free communities that has coaxed so many gay, bisexual and even bi-curious ladies out of their closets and into the open. Also, we now see major cultural icons like Madonna kissing Britney Spears kissing each other full on the lips in front of a television audience of millions which is exactly the right heterosexual seal of 'cool' that we lesbians have waited such a long time to see. Over the years, there have been a great many famous lesbians in both film and music but, unfortunately, they were just too frightened to come out and publicly admit it. Now we have Ellen DeGeneres and KD Lang - both of whom have an army of straight, non-judgmental fans.
The outcome of all this is that there is no longer a social stigma attached to the concept of women dating women or straight women experimenting with their sexuality by taking a same sex partner. Gay guys have been doing it for years but now there's no reason for any woman to feel repressed or uncertain about dating or sleeping with someone of their own sex. Being who we are or want to be is no longer just a possibility, it's a right and it's also something that's now accepted by our straight counterparts.
Whilst the word 'lesbian' is an all encompassing description for a gay woman, it doesn't do justice to the many different types of female who embrace the lifestyle. There are the traditional dykes as well as femmes/lipstsick lesbians whose ultra-feminine appearance would give no clue as to their sexual inclinations and bi-sexual and bi-curious women who occasionally indulge the lesbian side of their sexual and emotional psyches. Just because you don't have the shaved head and the tattoos doesn't mean you can't enjoy yourself sexually with another woman if that's what you want to do. So sisters...there's never been a better time to be a lesbian and now is the time to come out of the closet and be loud and proud about joys of lesbian loving!

Why You Need To Use Lesbian Online Dating Services

Lesbian online dating services have helped many lesbian singles meet and have great relationships. The lesbian communities have risen up to defend what they believe in. Lesbian online dating services have helped their quest and, society is more aware and open to their lifestyle. Being gay or lesbian is never easy but, lesbian online dating services are making it easier. Singles need not be lonely. You will be joined to many other singles who are lesbians like you. It is vital for you to take time and look into the possibility of joining a good service. There are several things you should consider when it comes to choosing lesbian online dating services. First, know exactly what you want in a relationship. There are several things you may be looking for in a relationship. You might just want friends or pen pals. You might also be seeking for a short term fling or a long term relationship.
The fact is, most people want to have fun and, in the process meet a soul mate. There is nothing more exciting than looking for a partner while having fun in the process. The service you visit will determine whether you have fun or not. It is therefore good to take time and find services that come with dynamic features. The other thing that you need to consider is your locality and, where you wish your mate to come from. It is pretty exciting to meet lesbians from all over the world. But, if you just want to meet a person from your area, you will find services that will ensure that you are connected to the right people. These days, you will find services catering for people no matter where they are in the world. For example, if you wish to meet lesbian singles from London, you can simply go to sites like Pink Date. There are very many other services and, you will find a good service in your area. Start looking for the information on the Internet.
The other thing to consider is the kind of service offered. You will want a service that has quality. Quality may come in several forms including the following. First, the service must have enough members and this usually comes with experience. The more the experience for lesbian online dating sites, the better quality they are likely to offer. Another thing is safety; online dating must be safe for all members. You can feel safe using a service that has an open policy on the issue. There are very many sites that screen the backgrounds of all members. There are other services that carry on warnings for criminal elements. It is vital to consider this and, you will not be disappointed for taking caution. Another thing to do is to read testimonials or the success stories. Everyone is encouraged by a good success story. This will get you going as you look forward to making your lesbian connection. Keep a positive attitude and have fun in the process. Chances are, you will not be disappointed in your search.

Lesbian Dating: Meeting Someone Special in your Life

Woman who are after lesbian dating are limited in their instances of falling in love and engaging in glowing relationships and intimacy. The main reason for this is that not many individuals are lesbians and some societies are still not ready for this type of romantic outfit. Many females go for long periods of time without a date and love and it can be attributed to scanty of places where someone can meet another like minded character.
The fact is that many of the woman in lesbian dating are older woman and even the young are not left behind. They have a tendency of not going to look for anybody to love and forge a common union. It is like there is no person with whom they can start a new common relationship with. This is not the case though. It will be extremely prudent to seek for advice in case you are one of those people who do not know where to start checking. You will be glad you ever did.
Just like in any other kind of dating, lesbian dating calls you to put all your effort into it and there is nothing that beats determination. If you are shy, then you might consider gaining some amount of courage since it has never brought you a person, to date. It's time to make some changes. If you begin by seeking advice, for instance from a lesbian love coach, it will be an assumption that you have made up your mind to begin making some changes.
The power of Internet dating has opened new frontiers in the line of dating, where a lesbian and a gay can easily get a partner. Many modern lesbians of varied ages have easily met their romance and love companions online. Later, you will realize that you really want to meet the individual in person, and by the time you have done it, you will be more informed on whom you are meeting since you had been sharing e-mails and phone calls in that meeting no longer scare you.
The other way into beginning a lesbian dating relationship is to be involved in those activities which really interest you. Visiting a club or bar might not be for everyone, mostly if you and alcohol are enemies or not mutual friends. There are other great areas and unique places where lesbians are. If your community is an open one, meeting lesbians can be easy as you are getting involved in those things which you enjoy. The best thing with going out in your community or place of recreation is that you will be tremendously happy and end the thoughts that it is very hard to meet other women.
Lesbian dating encompasses all types of women, from the young to the older, sometimes with each other. This might be the case but at the end of the day it's you to make your choice. If you are an old geezer or middle aged woman, try picking those kinds of activities which appeal to them. Some of these things include gardening clubs, bowling, hiking clubs and even reading groups. The other is to look for a group which is specifically made for lesbians.

Women Seeking Women in Lesbian London Dating Services

Women seeking other lesbian women in London dating instances has become very common. Hundreds of London dating sites for female lesbian singles in the capital is enabling them to find the women they are searching. Almost all the dating sites in London are a wholly representation of the way technology is affecting the life of every man and woman around the globe. The lesbian dating singles in London are generally after making sure single women as they would like them have been availed. It is upon ones online dating prowess to be able to make a mark about their online dating instigation.
The best news perhaps for every lesbian London dating individual is the many online dating sites there are. You can come across as many online dating individuals as you would like and even getting the kind of individuals you are searching for is something easy as ever. You must more than any other time try to make sure that you have been able to meet those individuals who mean something to you. Meeting the lesbian females you are searching for is not something that is overtly hard. What you need to make sure is that you have the best site that caters for all you dating and relationship needs.
Lesbian London dating should be localized as much as possible. You need to make sure online dating sites you have decided to traverse in your love issues are able to access you to the local females in your area. Find the kind of website that is accessing you to those individuals who are within a radius of 10 miles in your London home. For instance, if you are in Fulham, finding the lesbian singles within the locality should be your utmost goal. What you can do is search for a London dating site and you can be accessed to all the singles in its database. This is what many lesbians do, but there is another way that has been under-utilized.
Nevertheless, what many have ignored is the fact that many international dating sites are able to connect them with the local singles they are searching. The good thing for any lesbian in London dating is that, by using the section for lesbian singles in London from these sites offers you a rare chance to meet singles who have not been in any relationship online before. It is upon you to make use of a site that works for you, trying to get the best of dating to bring you the relationship you desire, but you must make sure you have made the right choice. You can use a site that lacks in the right services that make you meet viable singles and you will be left without anything to look forward.
Operating and going using a lesbian London dating site that is obsolete will leave you more tired and frustrated, leaving you with nothing but distaste for online dating and loath for the site. A viable lesbian dating site from your area in London is very crucial.

Ensure Your Lesbian Singles Encounter Is More Exciting and Pleasurable with Companionship

As soon as spending twelve to fourteen taxing hours at work, roughly every tired soul wishes for companionship. She then desires to spend time with a few kind friends with whom one can divide the trials and tribulations of life, her belief and experiences, her emotions and desires. Frequently in a world like ours, it is very hard to find real friends with to whom you can share your intimate belief. Plus your office contemporaries can not at all be your genuine friends.
What you will discover intolerable to divide with your real life "friends", you will distribute without a thought with friends who can at finest be described as strangers. Agreed, human nature is odd but at times, circumstances order such bizarre developments for the requirement of continued existence in the genuine world which is a full fledged existential clash.
Therefore how can you find such fabulous friends or intimate friends for life in this world? Do you stand in your Neighbourhood Park or shopping center or club or nightspot or tavern with a sign about your neck screaming "I require a friend"? Surely not. And you will come across like a clown and get smacked across your face if you start getting cosy with women you don't know in public places. Members will call you a foolish; they will run away from you or pack you off to an sanctuary or mental rehab centre!
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Lesbian dating is a rampant topic in today's era especially from the time homosexual marriages have been legal. It can be quite an adventurous and pleasant experience for lesbians to date their potential partner. However, what becomes difficult is to know where to find your companion.

Generally, the intuition guides lesbians to know the sexual orientation of other women. But it is always important to look for your partner at the right place and on the right time. There are certain places where you will surely find the dream mate for yourself. Here are some of the places and options that you can check out-

� She might be your best buddy. A best friend can prove to be a great life partner. This factor totally depends upon whether your best friend is a lesbian or not. Nothing can be more interesting and wonderful than finding your perfect mate in your friend.

Online dating. This is the perfectly perfect way to find you a like minded companion. Online dating has innumerable advantages attached to it where lesbian dating is concerned. Online dating gives you a variety of option in hand.
All you have to do is create an alluring dating profile on the website and one that is updated and genuine. This will call for replies from lesbians of the same wavelength. You won't have to suffer the embarrassment of approaching any women and then knowing they are not lesbians. Online dating will also make sure that you don't suffer any kind of rejection.

� Parties/lesbian bars. This is one of the best locations where you can meet your lesbian partner. As soon as you find an attractive mate, you can try and approach them and give them signals that you are interested. Not only this, you will also get some quality time with your partner as well as an advantage of a face to face interaction. An eye contact will also give you signals whether your partner feels the same for you or not.

� Common recreational clubs and associations. Meeting your companion here will ensure you have almost the same likes and hobbies. It will also help you a great deal to come closer to your partner emotionally. A fair mark in the compatibility check will also be guaranteed if you meet your lesbian partner in recreational clubs and associations.
Before showing any interest you can make interactions for sometime and then go ahead if you are sure about it. This will also give you time to know about their sexual orientations and hopes and dreams.

Random meets and coincidences. This is quite rare though that you might have certain coincidences with your potential lesbian partner. It might have happened that you met her at a mall or some coffee shop or she might have just walk passed you. Although these cases are uncommon and exceptional, it happens for many of the lesbians. They might meet their soul mate just when they least expect to.

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Lesbian dating online is quickly setting roots in society. There are numerous lesbian dating online sites that will enable you meet the woman of your dreams. The world is opening up to the idea of different sexual preferences. This is because reality shows that more and more people are coming out top declare their gay status. This is not only a trend of the modern world. Many people of the world are following the example of their counterparts in the western world. This means that they are gaining more confidence and ignoring their very judgmental environments. For example, the number of lesbians and gay people in general has increased in Africa. Many of these people have confessed to the fact that, their lifestyle was kept on the down low. The reason why they feared to come out is the culture around them which does not appreciate the gay lifestyles. In many societies, gay people have risen up to fight for their rights. They have been able to achieve some measure of success and this is evident with the rise of many lesbian dating online sites. If you are a lesbian, you will have an easier time searching for a great lady online.
Lesbian dating online has also opened different doors and overcome certain barriers. This means that you can meet more people than ever before. The world will be on your finger tips when you join lesbian dating online sites. Apart from the great cultural exchange, this diversity of people will enable you establish great networks which will be helpful to you in the long run. All these successes for the gay community do not eliminate the great challenge that is ahead of them. There are many organizations and groups that have risen to condemn the gay lifestyle. Therefore, the struggle continues. Meeting more people will ensure that lesbians strengthen each other as they come together through lesbian dating online sites. You will find very vibrant sites for lesbians. Look for the best sites available in the market. Best sites might be the more popular sites. All in all, go for services that you feel you can trust to give you that match you desire. It will be vital to know how much you have to pay for the service. The sites might be free, and all you need to do is to ensure there are no undisclosed charges.
The process of joining or registering with a lesbian dating online site is usually very simple. You will give some information about yourself. Creating a profile should also be very easy; follow the tips provided by the site to do this. There are sites which might not have some of these tips and, you can search for the information in other sites. A good profile is always a plus. Once you are registered, you have began the process of looking for a suitable mate. There is no much difference from other forms of relationships when it comes to lesbian dating. It will be very helpful to read some tips and advice on lesbian dating. You will get to know how to handle yourself on the first date as well as throughout your relationship.

How do I find lesbians in my area?

Okay, so dating is hard enough as it is. Going out, finding someone worth talking to, and then trying to find out whether they're single, interested and not a total loser... imagine, on top of that, trying to find out whether they're interested in your gender to start with!

When I go out, I would never approach a girl. I always assume that she's straight - even when I'm in a gay bar. After all, gay guys often bring their straight female friends out with them. So how do I find lesbians in my area? I could go up to each girl I see and ask, but that gets a bit embarrassing after the first few times...

One way you could find local lesbians is by joining your local LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender) society - most universities have a branch who have regular socials, including speed-dating! If there is not one near you, however, things can get tough. The same goes for gay bars - if you are lucky enough to live somewhere with a large gay/lesbian scene, then your chances of finding someone is more likely than if you live in an area that does not tolerate or respect gay/lesbian people as much...

So what do you do then? Well, other than asking around and hoping your friends can hook you up? As you're reading this, I can assume you already have access to the wonderful invention that is the internet. There are hundreds of dating sites all over the internet, where you can find and meet local lesbians in your area.
So, what are these lesbian only dating sites? A quick search tells me that Lesbian Date and Lesbian Matchmaker are pretty popular lesbian only dating sites. They let you specify where you live, so that you can find lesbians in your area - I searched and found a lot of pretty hot girls who lived just 4 miles from me! Plus, of course, you have the advantage of being able to find out a lot about someone before you contact them and meet up - but the awkwardness of having to ask their sexuality is gone!


Most dating and matchmaking sites (including those 2 ) will let you register for FREE as well, so you can see whether you like the sites before upgrading to a better membership. What have you got to lose? Who knows who you might find!

Sunday, January 8, 2012

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Being a thirty-something, single lesbian in a heterosexual, male-dominated world, doesn�t exactly make for easy dating. Just trying to figure out where to meet other single lesbians can be a difficult task. So�based on my own dating experiences, and a little internet research (my favorite pass time), I came up with a list of the best places, in my opinion, to meet other single lesbians.
These are not in any particular order:
Sporting Events/Activities: Well, as clich� as it might sound, one of the best places to meet other lesbians is at a women�s softball, soccer or football game. Whether you�re interested in actually joining a team, or you choose to just hangout in the stands, you�re bound to run into a handful (if not more) of single lesbians. If you�re not much of a team sports fan, try joining a women�s hiking, biking or camping group, you are almost guaranteed to find a few lesbians in the bunch.
Local Lesbian Clubs and Organizations:I know this may be another idea that sounds obvious, but sometimes we tend to forget about our local LGBT resources, which exist in almost every major city in the US. In fact, there is actually a LGBT National Help Center, with over 15,000 resources to help you find the different community centers, social groups, gay newspapers, etc. in your area.
Religious/Spiritual Center: If your spiritual beliefs are an important part of your life, then it makes sense to try and meet other women through your church, temple or spiritual center. The Metropolitan Community Churches, Science of Mind Churches, United Church of Christ and Unitarian Churches, are known to be welcoming of gays and lesbians. You can find listings of gay-friendly churches through the LGBT National Help Center or www.lesromance.com
Lesbian Bar & Restaurants: In most US cities you can find some sort of lesbian bar or restaurant. And being that lesbian bars tend to have lesbians in them, this can be another way to meet single women. If your not into the �bar� scene, try going on an off night, and you may find the atmosphere a bit more laid back, which can make it a little more conducive to actually having a conversation with someone.
Friends: our friends and acquaintances can be a great resource for meeting other single lesbians. Even if they are in a relationship, let them know that you are looking to meet new people. You never know who they might introduce you to, and you may find yourself among a whole new circle of people.
The Internet: Last, but not least, the Internet can be a great way to meet other lesbians. Online dating sites such aswww.lesromance.com can offer you some anonymity while you search for your perfect date. Plus most of these sites will give you a free trial period, so you can test it out before you spend any money. These sites can give you access to a variety of women whom you might never have met otherwise.
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I met a young girl a while back who had come to me concerned because she felt that she was a lesbian. She wanted to date a girl but she only ever attracted boys. Her friends would tell her to just settle for what she could get because she was too girly to have a relationship with another girl. She wondered if she should date men and just abandon her search for her lesbian soul mate.
Absolutely not! She likes what and who she likes. It's not her friends choice. She needs to stay the way she is and not change for anyone. I personally know a lot of lesbians that love girly girls. They love girls for a reason. Doesn't matter how she dresses. If you think about it, males like girls that are pretty and girly. If a lesbian wanted a manly girl, she would just be with a man. Don't get me wrong, there are lesbians that love the butch type but there are many that don't. She should never abandon the search because there is someone out there for everyone. She is out there and I am sure she will find her.
If you are a lesbian or bisexual, never be afraid of your sexuality. There is no stopping who you are. Your true friends will accept who you are and love you for you. And if they don't, then they don't matter anyway. Being lesbian is nothing to be ashamed of. If anything, it makes life more interesting.
So where can you meet some lesbians? This is a tough one for anyone new to the lesbian/bisexual scene. The first place I can think of is the lesbian bar. In many cities and towns, a lesbian bar could be the only place to meet women. If your not much of a bar/club groupie, try going on a weeknight when it is a bit calmer of an atmosphere and more friendly.
Another good place to go is a gay and lesbian center. Most major cities have one and it can be an excellent place to meet people. Many gay and lesbian centers have support groups, rap groups, book and movie groups and political action activities. Find one that feels right for you and you're sure to meet other like-minded lesbians and bisexuals.
Every town has some kind of a recreational sports team, whether it is softball, volleyball or basketball. Almost every lesbian and bisexual I know loves sports. Some towns have whole leagues for gay and lesbian athletes, others have teams that are �known� to be the teams lesbians play on. You don�t have to be an athlete to get in on the action. Sports like softball and soccer often have many lesbians in the stands watching. It's a great place for people to watch and start a conversation with a stranger.
If your looking for a lesbian partner with similar interests to your own, get involved in activities that interest you. Volunteer at the local animal shelter, join the local gardening club or bird watchers group. The lesbians who are there may be few, but you know you'll have something in common with them.
A really good way to meet them is through friends and coworkers. Don't be embarrassed, let them know that you want to meet other lesbians and bisexuals. Have them invite you over for dinner or a game night. Let them know you're just looking to make friends. Once you meet one or two lesbians that you get along with, you may end up meeting their friends and be welcomed into a whole new circle of people.
Then there is the Internet. One of the best places to meet lesbians to date and also a great place to meet women for friendship. You can put an ad up that says you�re just looking to make friends and answer other women's ads that say the same thing. Who knows, you may even hit if off with someone and take it further fairly quickly. Do be careful meeting people on the internet! Always meet in a very public place a few times until you get to know the person well.
I know for a fact that every major city has a neighborhood where gays and lesbians tend to live. There's sure to be a coffeehouse where the lesbians will congregate.
The last place I can think of is the local gay paper. There may be personals ads, a calendar of events or announcements for dances, plays, art shows, concerts and other activities. Check out one that interests you. Invite a gay-friendly straight friend to come along if you�re too shy to go by yourself.
One more thing I want to add to this subject is recognizing when a lesbian is interested in you. All women flirt the same whether it is with a man or a woman. Lots of touching and giddiness, a lot of eye contact, completely engaged in conversation, it is really not hard to tell. They will make it pretty obvious that they like you. So don't worry, have fun and be yourself!

How to handle lesbian essay questions?

Gay and lesbian essay have questions which require to be handled efficaciously by students end-to-end their lesbian essays. One of the most frequent type of lesbian essays that students are usually being assigned are associated to the human rights of gays and lesbians. It is not that no country accepts them but there are those countries too who support relationship between the people of same sex. Hence, the issue of gay and lesbian associations has become contentious in today's time.
In view of the fact that the affiliation between gays and lesbians is controversial; therefore, students are being assigned to deal controversial questions about lesbians in their lesbian essays. Below we give you some lesbian essay questions with a few guidelines so you can handle your lesbian essay questions:
Q1. "Make an argument for gay and lesbian marriages by giving as many feasible reasons for your argument as you can and tell what position would defeat your argument."
Guidelines:
Here, I give you pointers on which you should focus to come up with an efficient answer for your essay lesbian essay:
A- Arising Argument: There are two ways of presenting your argument on gay and lesbian marriages. You can either present an argument in favor of gay and lesbian marriages or against them. When In favor of gay marriage, you may state that; "Gays and lesbians should be allowed to marry each other".
B- Causes in support of an Argument: There are various reasons that you can provide in back up of the preceding argument. Here are the two rationalities that you may make use of in support of your argument:
1. It is the fundamental right of gays and lesbians to get married.
2. Lesbians should be permitted to get married as their wedding is not going to cause any impairment to others.
A- Presenting Facts against your Argument: with the intention of presenting an argument in opposition to lesbian marriage; you can make the most of the principles of law and religion to give the factual argument against gay and lesbian marriages. e.g. "Homosexuality is illegal in many countries and there are many religions that do not give the permission of same sex marriages".
Q2. Should Lesbian and gay Couples Be Allowed to Adopt Kids?
How to Guidelines:
A- Do you agree? You may either agree or disagree with the preceding question.
B- Reasons in support of your Statement: If you agree with the preceding question; then you should give the reasons in support of your answer. Some reasons may contain:
1. Gays and lesbian pairs should be allowed to adopt children as their adoption is not going to harm the social order in any ways.
2. Gays and lesbian pairs cannot have children, thus they should be permitted to adopt them as they are also human beings with emotions.
To be brief, you need a conventional point of view for handling your lesbian essay questions successfully.

Why Is Lesbian Chat Rooms Popular?

As you may already know, chat rooms are very popular among the young and the old. This is evident when you go to any chat room online; the demographics of the chatters in any given chat room is always varied, even in chat rooms that are mature in nature. And this popularity has also transcended in a more specific type of chatting, which is lesbian chat. As the name already implies, lesbian chat online is just like any other chat on the Internet, except its audience and its audience are focused on a particular section or niche. Obviously, the niche is lesbian women.
But despite the presence of more mainstream chat rooms, why are lesbian chat rooms still popular? Haven't the mainstream chat rooms already monopolized the market for this type of feature? What are the characteristic of lesbian chat and lesbian chat rooms that appeal to its market, and how is different from the characteristic of typical chat and chat rooms?
Lesbian chat and lesbian chat rooms are popular among lesbians because of its focus. Needless to say, when one enters a lesbian chat room, she will expect that all the chatters in the room are all lesbians. This means their interest and what they are looking for in the chat sessions are all in synch. Unfortunately, the same cannot be said about mainstream or less specialized. When a lesbian enters a typical chat room, she has to contend with the people who she is not interested in. So the time spent will focus more on the sifting the chatters. With lesbian chat rooms, she knows everyone in the room can be a potential chat mate.
In line with this, lesbian chat already eliminates the need to go to bars and other social places in order to meet a friend or a partner. Of course, actual human interaction is always necessary in order to have a fruitful friendship and relationship. But chat rooms can serve as the bridge between two people who would not otherwise meet.
This means one need not go to bars and other similar places. These places are usually where people meet with other people. There are lesbian bars where all the clientele are presumably lesbians, so one need not worry about sexual orientation. However, for others, this scene can be difficult and daunting, especially for those who are not used to interacting with strangers. Lesbian chat helps the socially inept to get over their fear. After all, in a lesbian chat, one is represented by her words, so physical appearance does not play a factor during the initial chat. Chat has a number of limitations and risky factors, but this characteristic of chat, if not abused, is ideal for many.
Lesbian chat has other uses as well. For one, some website offer services as such the viewing of live sex lesbian webcams. Live sex lesbian webcams are usually offered by websites that also provide adult or xxx chat. In order to have access to live sex lesbian webcams, one will need to pay a membership fee, although there live sex lesbian webcams that are free of charge. The live sex lesbian webcams are more mature in nature.
So regardless if one intends to view live sex lesbian webcams or simply wants to interact with other women, lesbian chat and lesbian chat rooms are a boon. And it certainly levels the field. After all, heterosexuals already have their very own chat rooms, making it easy for them to use the Internet to meet people. Certainly, lesbians can use the same advantage to. And thanks to live sex lesbian webcams and lesbian chat, it already is.

Lesbian Dating Guide - How Do I Get to Meet Lesbians?

For lesbians who have recently come out of the closet, it can be a difficult and daunting task trying to seek out other lesbians. It is very common to feel as though you're the lone lesbian in a heterosexual world. In some ways, it's easier for gay men since there are so many gay bars, gay clubs, gay cruises, gay male choruses, etc. But what's out there for lesbians? Here are some good starting points for meeting other lesbians in your community.
Lesbian bars
Duh. Lesbian bars might lack the wild and carefree appeal that gay bars have, attracting gay men, straight women, and all sorts of other types in between. However, they are a great place to meet lesbians. And that's what you're looking for, right? If you can't find a lesbian bar, go online and do a little research on google and I'm pretty sure you will find one near you. Even smaller cities and towns tend to have at least one lesbian bar tucked away somewhere, so go out there and find it.
Gay and lesbian center
If you aren't quite ready for dating, but want to get more acquainted with the lesbian community, a gay and lesbian center is the perfect place to get started. There is lesser pressure when compared to a bar setting and you can also take part in the various activities as well. If there's a gay and lesbian center in your town, you should definitely check it out and see what kind of programs they offer. It can be an excellent resource for meeting other lesbians and bisexual women in your neighborhood.
Women's sports teams
Okay, this is a little stereotypical, but the odds are that if you join a local women's sports team you will meet other lesbians. While I hate to make sweeping statements, lesbians, especially butch, loves to engage in sporting activities. Without lesbians, there would be no field hockey. Another up and coming sport dominated by lesbians is roller derby. Take out your aggression and meet women! In any case, many cities have established gay and lesbian sports league, which is a superb way to meet more lesbians living in the same city. But even if there isn't a lesbian-specific sport team for you to join, being active in any women's sports will most likely lead to meeting other lesbians. If it doesn't, at least you got in shape!
Church
I'm not suggesting hanging out at the Catholic Church or anything, but if you're religious, there are some open-minded congregations out there that have gay and lesbian members. Unitarian Churches are widely known for their liberal thinking and could be the starting point for you to meet religious lesbians if you are religious as well.
Gay neighborhoods
Almost every city has a gay neighborhood, even if it's only one block long. Gay neighborhoods typically have gay-owned shops and businesses as well as restaurants, bars, and coffee shops frequented by gays and lesbians. Go out and hang around in the neighborhood, talk to people in the gay bookshop or chat up the cute girl at the gay coffee house. These all some of the best and proven ways to find and locate fellow

Saturday, January 7, 2012

How To Approach a Woman for a Date

When it comes time for lesbian dating, the hardest part can be approaching someone you're interested in. After all, women aren't really taught at an early age how to pick up girls. But have no fear! You can approach that hot looking girl across the bar and start a conversation. Here's how.'

Here's How:

  1. If you see someone who is interesting, go over to her and strike up a conversation. The easiest thing to do is to compliment her on something. "I really like your hair. Who cuts it?" or "Those are great shoes, where did you get them?" End with an open-ended question, so she has to engage with you.
  2. Don't just go up and offer to buy her a drink. Find something to talk about: the pool game, the band that's playing or last night's episode of The L Word.
  3. Make eye contact and smile. Try to seem confident, even if you aren't. Women respond to that.
  4. Be friendly and courteous. Even if you and she don't hit it off, she could have a friend that you like.
  5. Pay attention to how she reacts and respond accordingly. If you're sensing she's interested, try flirting a little. Tell her she has beautiful eyes or she's a good dancer.
  6. Don't be too pushy. After talking for a while, introduce yourself, say it was nice meeting her and excuse yourself and walk away. See if she approaches you later. Or you can return later to ask her to dance or say you enjoyed talking to her and would like her phone number.
  7. Try to find something that you have that she wants- information about tickets to a sold out show, the name of that new self-help book, an extra car phone charger that just happens to fit her phone- and get her number so you can call her about it later.
  8. Have a wing woman -- a friend who comes to the bar with you to boost your confidence and to check in with after you talk to someone.
  9. Congratulate yourself. No matter what the outcome, you took a risk and put yourself out there. Have a drink or a dance to celebrate.

Tips:

  1. Be yourself. Don't try to impress her with something about yourself that isn't true.
  2. Set realistic expectations. Your goal should be to talk to someone, not to necessarily get her number or ask her on a date.
  3. It can be easier to approach someone in a small group than a gorgeous woman standing by herself.
  4. Have a card printed up with your name and phone number that you can give to people if they ask.