Does She Want You?

It can be hard to tell, sometimes, if that beautiful woman is into you or if she is simply one super lovely, friendly human being. Particularly for women who are just getting into the lesbian dating game, deciphering whether she’s so hot for you she imagines making a lesbian porn film with you on a daily basis, or is just a touchy-feely mom type, can be some tricky shit. Like with any of these crazy lists, these are not hard and fast rules, and I caution you to use your common sense above all else, but they might just help push you in the right direction:

She touches you…
She actually touches you. She doesn’t just grab your arm and say, “Thank you,” when you’ve done something kind, or give you a hug after your dog Grouchy gets attacked by a squirrel, she really touches you. At a party, she puts her hand on your knee and lingers a bit. Or she puts her hand on top of yours after you tell her your favorite author is MIlan Kundera and says, “You keep surprising me, Rita.” Simply think about the context of the physical contact and whether or not it would be the natural reaction of a woman interested only in platonic affection.
She thinks you’re funny….
Or maybe she doesn’t And you don’t. And no one else seems to, but she’s always laughing at your jokes. Umm, then yeah, she’s definitely into you.
She Seeks You Out…
And you’re not playing Hide and Seek. She makes her way across a crowded room to talk to you at a party, even though you two aren’t close. You show up at the bar gathering late and get stuck at the table with the other group of people that make up the larger one; nevertheless, she slides out of the booth she’s in and makes her way to the chair beside you.
She Compliments You…
And not on your sweater or your vintage handbag or your bangs. She says you have the most dazzling green eyes she has ever seen in her entire life, and that your lips are beautiful. Tell her you can’t wait for hers to be upon them.