Flirty Flirts Make For Bad Partners

A new study from Queen’s College in New York has discovered that people who are insecure make the best flirtswww.lesromance.comwhile people who flail and flounder at the sexual art generally do so because they are confident.
It makes sense. An insecure person will do whatever she can to please her object of interest. As one of the researchers put it, “Insecure people have developed numerous dating tactics…that they display to win over romantic partners.” I’ve see this manifest in the world of lesbian adult dating on numerous occasions.
While an insecure woman tends to focus the conversation on the object of interest, avoid topics that may be boring to the other, extend compliments and make an extra effort to be warm and engaging, the confident woman will launch into a subject that interests her and talk about it passionately – even though she might risk boring the other.
In the end, the latter move is always better. In the frantic world of women matching women, it is a waste of time to pretend you are or are not interested in something. You want to find a woman that shares your passion, or is at least genuinely interested in hearing about your passion.
While a great flirt might be good, at max, for an awesome night of hot I-wanna-please-you lesbian sex, she isn’t exactly going to make an awesome long-term partner.